Well here we are, in the last week of our time together, reading chapter seven of the book, "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity." All of the chapters have been awesome (I hope you would agree), but this chapter is a little different. It’s like blow-you-away awesome.
Why do I say that? Because it helps us understand the importance of our own relationship with God. As a busy mom, I can tell you that it is easy - too easy - to neglect your own spiritual growth. If our spiritual growth is not a priority, we can’t be the greatest influence to our kids. “Your children need to see you make relational, emotional, and spiritual growth in your life a priority. If you don’t make it personal for yourself, it may never be personal for them.”
As you read, ask yourself the key question on page 174, “Is my relationship with God growing, authentic, and personal?” My prayers for you will not stop this week! I am praying that God will fill your heart and life. I am praying that you are able to prioritize and balance personal time with God, with friends, and with family. I pray that you will get connected with other parents. I am praying that you make it personal.
Have a great week...D
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Do Something...More
I’m a planner. I probably over-plan…I’m talkin’ obsessive people. I even type (not write…type) a schedule of the week, listing everyone’s activities/responsibilities by day. Next to it is a box that tells us what is for dinner each night. I plan these meals out a month in advance. Crazy, I know. But what is worse is the fact that I go crazy when the plan doesn’t unfold as expected. It’s not pretty when someone “forgets” to tell me about something that should be on my calendar.
In my mind, it’s all about routine…and yes, I am a creature of habit. I like the familiar…so much that I always park in the same general area of every store I frequent. I always order the same things at the restaurants where I dine. I always follow the same daily routines. I’m stuck in the comfort of what I know.
Well, chapter six of the book "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" dives into the topic of routines. They call it “rhythm.” I think that sounds more fun, don’t you? As I read through this chapter, I realized that I have rhythm with my kids…and I didn’t plan it! Rhythm has been “factored into my expectations.”
I love the very direct question on page 123 – “How normal is God in your home?” Is he stuffed in a box or on a shelf? Does he only come out to play on Sunday? Is he random? Is he a special occasion God or a God at the center of your family?
That’s a good question, isn’t it?
I’ve pondered that question this week. We have to be intentional about investing in the lives of our children and we have to be “deliberate about creating a rhythm within our home.” We don’t have to go all obsessive-compulsive about creating the rhythm either. It’s the natural moments that build faith.
The mornings I spend with Ryan before school.
The evenings tucking Gavin in bed at night.
The family meals around the table.
These are the moments we value in our home. They are not long, drawn-out times together. But they are priority…and precious times together.
That’s cool. That’s rhythm. That’s God.
I hope that as you read chapter six, you realized that you really do have rhythm. Now go – capitalize on those moments! God has a story to tell and he needs your family to tell it!
D
In my mind, it’s all about routine…and yes, I am a creature of habit. I like the familiar…so much that I always park in the same general area of every store I frequent. I always order the same things at the restaurants where I dine. I always follow the same daily routines. I’m stuck in the comfort of what I know.
Well, chapter six of the book "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" dives into the topic of routines. They call it “rhythm.” I think that sounds more fun, don’t you? As I read through this chapter, I realized that I have rhythm with my kids…and I didn’t plan it! Rhythm has been “factored into my expectations.”
I love the very direct question on page 123 – “How normal is God in your home?” Is he stuffed in a box or on a shelf? Does he only come out to play on Sunday? Is he random? Is he a special occasion God or a God at the center of your family?
That’s a good question, isn’t it?
I’ve pondered that question this week. We have to be intentional about investing in the lives of our children and we have to be “deliberate about creating a rhythm within our home.” We don’t have to go all obsessive-compulsive about creating the rhythm either. It’s the natural moments that build faith.
The mornings I spend with Ryan before school.
The evenings tucking Gavin in bed at night.
The family meals around the table.
These are the moments we value in our home. They are not long, drawn-out times together. But they are priority…and precious times together.
That’s cool. That’s rhythm. That’s God.
I hope that as you read chapter six, you realized that you really do have rhythm. Now go – capitalize on those moments! God has a story to tell and he needs your family to tell it!
“The goal is not to do everything, but to engage in doing something more.”
D
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Do What You Do!
I love this little ditty by Steven Curtis Chapman – Do Everything. I first heard it a few weeks ago in the car at one of the exhausted moments in my day. It was a great little reminder that for me “to do everything you do to the glory of the one who made you…”
Listen to the words. Tap your toes. And remember that you (and all you do) matter to God!
Blessings…D
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Got Rhythm?
We have made it to Chapter Six of "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity!" I hope (and pray) that you are loving this book and gaining some valuable insight!
This week we will be reading chapter six and learning all about how to create a rhythm. I was a little worried when I first read the chapter title because I am musically challenged…but rest assured, it’s not that kind of rhythm!
Whew!
Creating a rhythm is actually about the things you do as a parent to intentionally invest in your child’s life. Don’t be scared – I’m talking the simple stuff here!
Do you have a bedtime routine?
Do you have special family time planned into your week?
Do you eat meals together as a family?
Do you make time for family devotions?
Do you have any special holiday traditions?
Do you find “teachable moments” in everyday life?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions – you are creating a rhythm! Dig into this incredible chapter and find out how to take that rhythm to the next level.
Know that you are being prayed for as you continue this journey!
D
This week we will be reading chapter six and learning all about how to create a rhythm. I was a little worried when I first read the chapter title because I am musically challenged…but rest assured, it’s not that kind of rhythm!
Whew!
Creating a rhythm is actually about the things you do as a parent to intentionally invest in your child’s life. Don’t be scared – I’m talking the simple stuff here!
Do you have a bedtime routine?
Do you have special family time planned into your week?
Do you eat meals together as a family?
Do you make time for family devotions?
Do you have any special holiday traditions?
Do you find “teachable moments” in everyday life?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions – you are creating a rhythm! Dig into this incredible chapter and find out how to take that rhythm to the next level.
Know that you are being prayed for as you continue this journey!
D
Friday, August 19, 2011
The Funnies
When I was younger, I loved to read the comic section of the newspaper. I would rumble through the paper to pull out that section and scurry off for a good chuckle. I even cut some of the comic strips out and put them in a scrapbook...I know -weird.
Today I rarely read the paper and almost never seek out the comic section. Who needs a paper when you have Gavin? I've likened him to Dennis the Mennis on steroids. He doesn't get into a lot of trouble, but he sure does say the darndest things. I am not good at writing them down on a consistent basis, but I did write down his funnies this week. Have a chuckle on me...
One day, Gavin was touching the papers on my desk. It's usually not a problem until he picks up a pen or pencil...then we are in trouble! He crossed that line this week and I said, "Gavin, you know you are not supposed to touch the things on my desk." He looked mischievously at the things scattered on my desk, put his index finger on a book, and said, "I'm touching your book mommy. I'm touching it!"
While watching television one evening, Gavin came running into my office, covering his mouth, and saying, "Mommy, this is horrible!" I made the mistake of asking what was so horrible. Turns out he swallowed an octopus.
When trying to get my attention, Gavin said, "Mommy, look at me. Look at my eyes." *ashamed*
After being served his peanut butter and jelly sandwich, Gavin looked at me with a huge smile and said, "Thank you mommy. I am so proud of you!" I wish I got that response with all the meals I served!
As I was straightening my hair, Gavin kept taking my brush. After the third time of him taking it and me asking for it back I said, "Gavin, if you touch it again I'm going to have to spank you." His reply was odd. He said, "Aww, that's not a good one mom." Although I was afraid of the answer, I asked, "What's not a good one?" simply because I was curious. Very confidently he said, "You should spank me with the wooden spoon. It doesn't hurt." *A strong will and an iron butt! Grr...*
Mommy: "It's about time for you to take your nap."
Gavin: "Mmmm...no. I want to sleep tomorrow."
Mommy: "Gavin, take the bucket off your head."
Gavin: "Awww...but I'm an astronaut!"
At bedtime, Gavin and I always say prayers. Usually he goes first and I finish. For some reason, one night he told me he didn't know what to say. Seriously, he says the same thing every night, so I wasn't sure why he was at a loss for words! I told him to just talk to God. Since he thinks God lives in his tummy, he leaned over and talked to his tummy. It was hard not to giggle as we went through our prayer time! Before I left the room, he tells me that he can't hear God. I thought, "Wow! My three-year old wants to hear God. This is cool!" So I sat back down and I explained that he has to be quiet to hear God. Before I could get anything else out, he put his hand to his ear and said, "I hear him!" *Okay, maybe he's not quite ready...*
Gavin likes to use the silverware for drumming purposes, banging on laundry baskets and counter tops. I asked him to put the spoons in the sink one morning so I could start my phone calls. I heard a plink and then Gavin's innocent little voice say, "I put the spoons in the sink your majesty."
I love to have a smoothie in the morning. I usually get it made before he gets up, but one day that didn't work out as planned...mostly because he woke up way too early! I put him at the table with his breakfast and cartoons (I know, I know...You want to nominate me for Mother of the Year, don't you?). While he was occupied, I finished my morning routine, which included the making of a smoothie. When I turned on the Magic Bullet, he yelled (at the top of his lungs), "Mom! Be quiet! I was to hear this!"
And my two favorite quotes of the week....
We got a thunderstorm one evening which included hail. Apparently Gavin had not seen this before. He exclaimed, "Wow! It's raining popcorn! Cool!"
Mommy: Gavin, pick up your toys.
Gavin: I did
Mommy: I still see lots of toys on the floor.
Gavin: Well close your eyes.
Man I love him!!
What funny things do your kids say?
Keepin' it real....D
Today I rarely read the paper and almost never seek out the comic section. Who needs a paper when you have Gavin? I've likened him to Dennis the Mennis on steroids. He doesn't get into a lot of trouble, but he sure does say the darndest things. I am not good at writing them down on a consistent basis, but I did write down his funnies this week. Have a chuckle on me...
One day, Gavin was touching the papers on my desk. It's usually not a problem until he picks up a pen or pencil...then we are in trouble! He crossed that line this week and I said, "Gavin, you know you are not supposed to touch the things on my desk." He looked mischievously at the things scattered on my desk, put his index finger on a book, and said, "I'm touching your book mommy. I'm touching it!"
While watching television one evening, Gavin came running into my office, covering his mouth, and saying, "Mommy, this is horrible!" I made the mistake of asking what was so horrible. Turns out he swallowed an octopus.
When trying to get my attention, Gavin said, "Mommy, look at me. Look at my eyes." *ashamed*
After being served his peanut butter and jelly sandwich, Gavin looked at me with a huge smile and said, "Thank you mommy. I am so proud of you!" I wish I got that response with all the meals I served!
As I was straightening my hair, Gavin kept taking my brush. After the third time of him taking it and me asking for it back I said, "Gavin, if you touch it again I'm going to have to spank you." His reply was odd. He said, "Aww, that's not a good one mom." Although I was afraid of the answer, I asked, "What's not a good one?" simply because I was curious. Very confidently he said, "You should spank me with the wooden spoon. It doesn't hurt." *A strong will and an iron butt! Grr...*
Mommy: "It's about time for you to take your nap."
Gavin: "Mmmm...no. I want to sleep tomorrow."
Mommy: "Gavin, take the bucket off your head."
Gavin: "Awww...but I'm an astronaut!"
At bedtime, Gavin and I always say prayers. Usually he goes first and I finish. For some reason, one night he told me he didn't know what to say. Seriously, he says the same thing every night, so I wasn't sure why he was at a loss for words! I told him to just talk to God. Since he thinks God lives in his tummy, he leaned over and talked to his tummy. It was hard not to giggle as we went through our prayer time! Before I left the room, he tells me that he can't hear God. I thought, "Wow! My three-year old wants to hear God. This is cool!" So I sat back down and I explained that he has to be quiet to hear God. Before I could get anything else out, he put his hand to his ear and said, "I hear him!" *Okay, maybe he's not quite ready...*
Gavin likes to use the silverware for drumming purposes, banging on laundry baskets and counter tops. I asked him to put the spoons in the sink one morning so I could start my phone calls. I heard a plink and then Gavin's innocent little voice say, "I put the spoons in the sink your majesty."
I love to have a smoothie in the morning. I usually get it made before he gets up, but one day that didn't work out as planned...mostly because he woke up way too early! I put him at the table with his breakfast and cartoons (I know, I know...You want to nominate me for Mother of the Year, don't you?). While he was occupied, I finished my morning routine, which included the making of a smoothie. When I turned on the Magic Bullet, he yelled (at the top of his lungs), "Mom! Be quiet! I was to hear this!"
And my two favorite quotes of the week....
We got a thunderstorm one evening which included hail. Apparently Gavin had not seen this before. He exclaimed, "Wow! It's raining popcorn! Cool!"
Mommy: Gavin, pick up your toys.
Gavin: I did
Mommy: I still see lots of toys on the floor.
Gavin: Well close your eyes.
Man I love him!!
What funny things do your kids say?
Keepin' it real....D
Thursday, August 18, 2011
He makes all things new
"Thine arm, O Lord, in days of old, was strong to heal and save; It triumphed o'er disease and death, o'er darkness and the grave." ~ Edward H. Plumptre, 1864
He makes all things new
He makes all things new
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
I Dare You
There is an imaginary line in my home. I stand on one side and face my child standing on the other. Sometimes we are in a stare down. I have perfected the “mommy look.” No one dares to defy the look. I win.
Sometimes we are in a battle of wits. I have experience under my belt. I win.
Sometimes we are hurling words without thinking. I always have the last word. I win.
Or do I?
I think my parenting style (if you can call it that) has failed on numerous occasions. I may have won the battle…but I have damaged the heart in the process. And when you damage the heart, it takes a lot to mend.
Seriously, trust me on this one. I have a lot of experience...
My kids and I all have good relationships. I am lucky because the battles we have engaged in have been few and far between. But even so, I need to reevaluate my battle cry. I can’t honestly tell you that I have thought about fighting for my kids hearts. I mean, I desire for them to all grow up to be men who have a heart like His. But fighting for that? I’m not sure I have done a good job there.
Or have I?
Ryan and I just had a conversation about love and compassion. I pray that he (and his siblings) see, know, and feel the love I have for them. I hope that they see my faith demonstrated in real, tangible ways. I trust that I communicate with them effectively (and appropriately). I want them to see how God is moving in my life. I desire for them to have a hunger and thirst for Jesus because of mine. But do I fight for it?
I’m afraid that sometimes I am more concerned with curfews, friends, and language. I want my kids to make the best choices and sometimes that means I force my choices upon them. While these things are certainly important, “my way” is often met with resistance. That is where the line is drawn – and when neither of us dare to cross it…we both lose.
Crose the line!
I dare you.
Foster a healthy, loving, trustworthy relationship with your child. It's easier than you think...even for the toughest of relationships.
You see, to make a relationship with anyone better, you actually have to focus on yourself. You have to be the one to change...make the first move, so to speak. The secret is actually quite simple. If you want to cultivate a strong relationship with your child, you should first cultivate a relationship with God. I’m talking more than punching your clock on Sunday too…How do you live it out on Monday? How do you serve others? What faith does your child see in you?
Reggie points out that “our capacity to love our children and family is somehow linked to our love for God. Stated another way, if you want to love your children beyond your capacity, then learn to love God. The point is, God’s love is much more powerful and trustworthy then even your love as a parent. Your ability, your strength, your desire to love your children the right way starts with learning how to love God the right way.”
Never. Stop. Fighting...D
* Thoughts taken from the book, "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" by Reggie Joiner and Carey Nieuwhof, chapter five.
Sometimes we are in a battle of wits. I have experience under my belt. I win.
Sometimes we are hurling words without thinking. I always have the last word. I win.
Or do I?
I think my parenting style (if you can call it that) has failed on numerous occasions. I may have won the battle…but I have damaged the heart in the process. And when you damage the heart, it takes a lot to mend.
Seriously, trust me on this one. I have a lot of experience...
My kids and I all have good relationships. I am lucky because the battles we have engaged in have been few and far between. But even so, I need to reevaluate my battle cry. I can’t honestly tell you that I have thought about fighting for my kids hearts. I mean, I desire for them to all grow up to be men who have a heart like His. But fighting for that? I’m not sure I have done a good job there.
Or have I?
Ryan and I just had a conversation about love and compassion. I pray that he (and his siblings) see, know, and feel the love I have for them. I hope that they see my faith demonstrated in real, tangible ways. I trust that I communicate with them effectively (and appropriately). I want them to see how God is moving in my life. I desire for them to have a hunger and thirst for Jesus because of mine. But do I fight for it?
I’m afraid that sometimes I am more concerned with curfews, friends, and language. I want my kids to make the best choices and sometimes that means I force my choices upon them. While these things are certainly important, “my way” is often met with resistance. That is where the line is drawn – and when neither of us dare to cross it…we both lose.
Crose the line!
I dare you.
Foster a healthy, loving, trustworthy relationship with your child. It's easier than you think...even for the toughest of relationships.
You see, to make a relationship with anyone better, you actually have to focus on yourself. You have to be the one to change...make the first move, so to speak. The secret is actually quite simple. If you want to cultivate a strong relationship with your child, you should first cultivate a relationship with God. I’m talking more than punching your clock on Sunday too…How do you live it out on Monday? How do you serve others? What faith does your child see in you?
Reggie points out that “our capacity to love our children and family is somehow linked to our love for God. Stated another way, if you want to love your children beyond your capacity, then learn to love God. The point is, God’s love is much more powerful and trustworthy then even your love as a parent. Your ability, your strength, your desire to love your children the right way starts with learning how to love God the right way.”
Never. Stop. Fighting...D
* Thoughts taken from the book, "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" by Reggie Joiner and Carey Nieuwhof, chapter five.
Wordless Wednesday
The other day I was uploading my pictures to my computer. Or is that downloading? I always get confused...
Anyway, imagine my surprise when this one popped up. It's my son, who apparently was bored at some point. He makes me giggle at just the right times...
Frozen Bananas
One of my favorite things about my mom was her creativity in the kitchen. She wasn't afraid to try new things and she often experimented with food. Sometimes that was a good thing...others, not so much.
I don't remember much about my childhood, but I do remember the array of constant aromas in our home. And good ones too, unlike the smell of stinky dog in my house, or the light-a-candle-so-you-don't-smell-the-gas from my past...yea, long story!
My point is that I did not get the cooking genes from my mom. My brothers were definitely blessed with that! I do like to cook, but I'm not terribly adventurous. I must follow a recipe...none of this open the cupboard and whip something together stuff for me! I usually stay away from recipes that use weird ingredients (aka: I don't know what it is). And I hate it when recipes say things like, "add the spices you like." Hello? Have you seen the spice aisle?? I don't know what most of those spices are - heck, I didn't know half of them existed!
Okay, by now you should get the idea that I am a simple recipe girl...and bland beyond salt, pepper, and cinnamon.
I came across a recipe for a Peanut Butter Smoothie. Ryan and I love smoothies in the morning, and I am kindda getting bored, so I thought I would give it a try. It called for a frozen banana. Easy enough, right? I tossed a couple of bananas in the freezer before I went to bed and that was that.
The next morning brought a tiny challenge. You can't peel a frozen banana. And if you let it thaw, it's no longer frozen as intended for the recipe.
Crap.
Here is where I would normally call my mom. She always bailed me out in the kitchen.
Well, desperate times call for desperate measures, right? I was pretty determined to have a PB Banana Smoothie for breakfast, so I thought for a second and pulled out a knife.
Yep. I cut the peel off...grumbling the whole time about how stupid I am. I miss my mom (for lots of reasons). I could skip this whole embarrassing post if I could call her and gain insight on something as silly as freezing bananas. Who knew there was a trick and didn't tell me?
Have you ever had any mishaps in the kitchen?
Going Bananas....D
I don't remember much about my childhood, but I do remember the array of constant aromas in our home. And good ones too, unlike the smell of stinky dog in my house, or the light-a-candle-so-you-don't-smell-the-gas from my past...yea, long story!
My point is that I did not get the cooking genes from my mom. My brothers were definitely blessed with that! I do like to cook, but I'm not terribly adventurous. I must follow a recipe...none of this open the cupboard and whip something together stuff for me! I usually stay away from recipes that use weird ingredients (aka: I don't know what it is). And I hate it when recipes say things like, "add the spices you like." Hello? Have you seen the spice aisle?? I don't know what most of those spices are - heck, I didn't know half of them existed!
Okay, by now you should get the idea that I am a simple recipe girl...and bland beyond salt, pepper, and cinnamon.
I came across a recipe for a Peanut Butter Smoothie. Ryan and I love smoothies in the morning, and I am kindda getting bored, so I thought I would give it a try. It called for a frozen banana. Easy enough, right? I tossed a couple of bananas in the freezer before I went to bed and that was that.
The next morning brought a tiny challenge. You can't peel a frozen banana. And if you let it thaw, it's no longer frozen as intended for the recipe.
Crap.
Here is where I would normally call my mom. She always bailed me out in the kitchen.
Well, desperate times call for desperate measures, right? I was pretty determined to have a PB Banana Smoothie for breakfast, so I thought for a second and pulled out a knife.
Yep. I cut the peel off...grumbling the whole time about how stupid I am. I miss my mom (for lots of reasons). I could skip this whole embarrassing post if I could call her and gain insight on something as silly as freezing bananas. Who knew there was a trick and didn't tell me?
Have you ever had any mishaps in the kitchen?
Going Bananas....D
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
She Thinks I'm Pretty
I received an email from a friend the other day. In it she said, and I quote, “By the way, did I tell you how pretty you looked yesterday?”
Pretty?
Me?
Aww….so sweet! I sort of giggled and immediately wrote a whole blog post in my head as I replied to her email. I don’t know if she was trying to butter me up for something or what. If she was, I didn’t “get it.” I was pretty wrapped up in the moment of that particular compliment.
You see, I have felt anything but pretty lately. I was doing so good with my weight loss goals, and then I went on vacation! It’s been very difficult for me to get back into the routine of exercising – a routine that took me years to get into in the first place. For the first time in months, I actually gained weight! I could just kick myself into oblivion…so discouraging!
In the midst of my frustration, the devil tried to do his thing. It’s like he sat on my shoulder and said, “Eat up! Don’t worry about the exercise. Sweating is so…gross, anyway and good health is simply over-rated.” I didn’t buy it, but I was tempted to give up at times. On weigh-in day, it was frustrating to see a loss of a pound (or sometimes zero) after a week full of conscious choices and intentional exercise. What's the point? Does anyone really care (besides me)? I mean, someone thinks I am pretty – just the way I am. That’s good enough, right?
And then it hit me (as I was walking on the treadmill, might I add).
I am pretty. And someone does care. In fact, he cares so much that he died for me.
Me.
His love is unconditional. He doesn’t love me more if the scale tips to the left and he doesn’t love me less if the scale tips to the right. He just loves me. He gave me life. Why would I waste that gift being unhealthy? Why would I settle for being pretty, when I could be beautiful?
Soaking in the truth…D
Pretty?
Me?
Aww….so sweet! I sort of giggled and immediately wrote a whole blog post in my head as I replied to her email. I don’t know if she was trying to butter me up for something or what. If she was, I didn’t “get it.” I was pretty wrapped up in the moment of that particular compliment.
You see, I have felt anything but pretty lately. I was doing so good with my weight loss goals, and then I went on vacation! It’s been very difficult for me to get back into the routine of exercising – a routine that took me years to get into in the first place. For the first time in months, I actually gained weight! I could just kick myself into oblivion…so discouraging!
In the midst of my frustration, the devil tried to do his thing. It’s like he sat on my shoulder and said, “Eat up! Don’t worry about the exercise. Sweating is so…gross, anyway and good health is simply over-rated.” I didn’t buy it, but I was tempted to give up at times. On weigh-in day, it was frustrating to see a loss of a pound (or sometimes zero) after a week full of conscious choices and intentional exercise. What's the point? Does anyone really care (besides me)? I mean, someone thinks I am pretty – just the way I am. That’s good enough, right?
And then it hit me (as I was walking on the treadmill, might I add).
I am pretty. And someone does care. In fact, he cares so much that he died for me.
Me.
His love is unconditional. He doesn’t love me more if the scale tips to the left and he doesn’t love me less if the scale tips to the right. He just loves me. He gave me life. Why would I waste that gift being unhealthy? Why would I settle for being pretty, when I could be beautiful?
Soaking in the truth…D
The Wait
Sometimes I get into a rut. I get tired of doing the same old thing, over and over and over and over…I want new and exciting! Not the same old laundry, dishes, cleaning. I want adventure. I want a challenge.
I want a change.
I looked over my prayers the last few weeks and I’ve prayed for this exact thing. I’ve prayed for it in my home life, in my work life, and in my spiritual life. Wow! I guess I don’t like the mundane feeling of my life as it is today. I don’t see the purpose. I mean, what good can come from a basket of folded laundry, dozens of phone messages, and clean toys? Anyone can do those things. And while I am content to do those things, I want so much more. I’ve prepared myself for more. I am waiting (impatiently) for more.
Do you ever do that? Question your purpose?
I have been doing a Bible study on the names of God and getting to know him…better. Today I sat down to continue and I read about God’s power and his perfect plan.
Humbled.
He has me exactly where he wants me, doing exactly what he wants me to do in this season of my life. I know this, but it seems that I needed a gentle reminder. I believe my desire for more is good. It’s fueled by the passions he has blessed me with. But it’s just not his time. When it is, I think I will be pleasantly surprised because the “more” he has in store for me is more than I could ever imagine.
So I will wait.
I will do the dishes with gusto and laundry with pep in my step…ahem, let’s not go overboard! But I will trust in my God, knowing that his timing is perfect.
Do you struggle in the wait?
Keeping it Real…D
I want a change.
I looked over my prayers the last few weeks and I’ve prayed for this exact thing. I’ve prayed for it in my home life, in my work life, and in my spiritual life. Wow! I guess I don’t like the mundane feeling of my life as it is today. I don’t see the purpose. I mean, what good can come from a basket of folded laundry, dozens of phone messages, and clean toys? Anyone can do those things. And while I am content to do those things, I want so much more. I’ve prepared myself for more. I am waiting (impatiently) for more.
Do you ever do that? Question your purpose?
I have been doing a Bible study on the names of God and getting to know him…better. Today I sat down to continue and I read about God’s power and his perfect plan.
Humbled.
He has me exactly where he wants me, doing exactly what he wants me to do in this season of my life. I know this, but it seems that I needed a gentle reminder. I believe my desire for more is good. It’s fueled by the passions he has blessed me with. But it’s just not his time. When it is, I think I will be pleasantly surprised because the “more” he has in store for me is more than I could ever imagine.
So I will wait.
I will do the dishes with gusto and laundry with pep in my step…ahem, let’s not go overboard! But I will trust in my God, knowing that his timing is perfect.
Do you struggle in the wait?
Keeping it Real…D
Monday, August 15, 2011
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Party On!
I love a good party!
Okay, if you really know me, you know I don’t really love it. I’d much rather be secluded in the comforts of my home and familiar surroundings of my family. But none-the-less, I do love getting together with friends and having fun – especially when those friends are the people I work with!
I don’t get the pleasure of hanging out with these guys on a daily basis because I only work part time, working from home and heading into the church “after hours” when everyone else has left for the day. But I do like the giggles at staff meetings and the quick chats on Sunday mornings.
Hey – I will take what I can get!
On Saturday, we got together for our annual staff party…a time of hanging out, talking, laughing, and building relationships. Oh – and eating…my, oh my, was there food – brats, burgers, salads, veggies, fruit, and, of course, desserts! It was all so yummy!
After our bellies were full (uh, stuffed), we hung out chatting (because we couldn't move), and eventually moved on to playing corn hole and volleyball (I didn’t get pictures of that…grr), jumping on the trampoline, and swimming. There was a chance of rain in the forecast, but God must have known we all needed this time together.
Not a drop of rain!
I am blessed to be a small part of such an incredible team! God is moving at Mainstreet!
Keeping it Real...D
Okay, if you really know me, you know I don’t really love it. I’d much rather be secluded in the comforts of my home and familiar surroundings of my family. But none-the-less, I do love getting together with friends and having fun – especially when those friends are the people I work with!
I don’t get the pleasure of hanging out with these guys on a daily basis because I only work part time, working from home and heading into the church “after hours” when everyone else has left for the day. But I do like the giggles at staff meetings and the quick chats on Sunday mornings.
Hey – I will take what I can get!
On Saturday, we got together for our annual staff party…a time of hanging out, talking, laughing, and building relationships. Oh – and eating…my, oh my, was there food – brats, burgers, salads, veggies, fruit, and, of course, desserts! It was all so yummy!
After our bellies were full (uh, stuffed), we hung out chatting (because we couldn't move), and eventually moved on to playing corn hole and volleyball (I didn’t get pictures of that…grr), jumping on the trampoline, and swimming. There was a chance of rain in the forecast, but God must have known we all needed this time together.
Not a drop of rain!
I am blessed to be a small part of such an incredible team! God is moving at Mainstreet!
Keeping it Real...D
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| Leave it to my teenage son to put a smile face on his burger. Leave it to the pastor's wife to make it into a food man - complete with a bun hat! |
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| John, Opal, Amy, Larry, Joyce (hiding), Mandy |
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| Karen, Ken, Brian, Tim, Joel |
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| Corn hole tourney - "Older vs Younger" |
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| Water Wars |
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| Trampoline fun |
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| Ryan and Tom |
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| Nathan and Marty |
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| Sydney and Gavin |
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| Zoe |
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| Water fun |
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| I don't think he got out of the water!! |
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| Shelly, Lynda (hiding), Jen, Carolyn, Jake, Sharri |
Fight for the Heart
Fighting.
That is what you will read about in Chapter Five of Parenting Beyond Your Capacity – good old fashioned fighting…for the heart of your child that is.
This week will be a little different than the others. You see, this week, you will really dig deep into your personal relationship with your child – and you will think!
You will think about “those fights” you tend to have about “those things” you think are important. You will think about your own relationship with God. You will think about how you intentionally bless your kids. You will think about how you communicate (and how that communication will change through the years)…
Yea – you’re gonna think a lot this week! So pray up friends! God is going to talk and it’s our turn to listen! I suggest you turn to page 115 and answer the questions at the end of the chapter. I especially love the exercise in questions four and six and would encourage you to make those lists!
As you read this chapter, keep this in mind, “Every family fights, but there is a world of difference between when you fight with someone and when you fight for someone. When you fight with someone, you want to win. When you fight for someone, you want that person to win. When you fight with people, walls are built up. When you fight for people, walls come down. When you fight with people, relationships are jeopardized. When you fight for people, relationships are prioritized.”
Don’t stop fighting…D
That is what you will read about in Chapter Five of Parenting Beyond Your Capacity – good old fashioned fighting…for the heart of your child that is.
This week will be a little different than the others. You see, this week, you will really dig deep into your personal relationship with your child – and you will think!
You will think about “those fights” you tend to have about “those things” you think are important. You will think about your own relationship with God. You will think about how you intentionally bless your kids. You will think about how you communicate (and how that communication will change through the years)…
Yea – you’re gonna think a lot this week! So pray up friends! God is going to talk and it’s our turn to listen! I suggest you turn to page 115 and answer the questions at the end of the chapter. I especially love the exercise in questions four and six and would encourage you to make those lists!
As you read this chapter, keep this in mind, “Every family fights, but there is a world of difference between when you fight with someone and when you fight for someone. When you fight with someone, you want to win. When you fight for someone, you want that person to win. When you fight with people, walls are built up. When you fight for people, walls come down. When you fight with people, relationships are jeopardized. When you fight for people, relationships are prioritized.”
Don’t stop fighting…D
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Priorities
I’m going to start right out of the gate with a quote from chapter four of Parenting Beyond Your Capacity…followed by even more (because sometimes…well, often…others say “it” better than I do!)!
“We become so preoccupied with giving kids an inheritance that we forget the significance of leaving a legacy. Sometimes I just have to be reminded that what I give to my children or what I do for my children is not as important as what I leave in them.”
Mike and I struggle with this. We were each brought up quite differently. My parents instilled in me a work ethic, therefore, I worked for the things I “wanted.” I started babysitting when I was like 12 and got a “real” job as soon as someone would hire me. My parents helped me to manage my money – tithe, save, spend. Mike was the opposite of me. Not that he doesn’t have a strong work ethic – trust me, he does! But he was given the things he wanted when he was younger. It was the precedent set for him.
So we struggle with balance for our own kids. As the perfect example, Ryan, our senior in High School, wants a car of his own…but he doesn’t work (other than odds and ends for grandma and his uncle). For the last two years I have been telling him to put the money that he earns away so he will have it for his dream car purchase…but my pleas have fallen on deaf ears. Mike thinks it would be okay to buy Ryan a car. Obviously, I disagree. I believe he should work for it. He needs to learn that people don’t just hand him things in the real world…and someday soon, he will be in that real world.
Ryan would be the happiest boy in the world if he had his own set of wheels. And quite frankly, it would make my life easier too…but his happiness isn’t the goal. “Whenever we define a child’s happiness as our ultimate goal, we settle for something far less significant than what God has designed for them or what He has designed them for.”
As his parents, we should “imagine the end.” Life isn’t about giving stuff to your kids. “It would be heartbreaking if your children enjoy the benefits and the prosperity of a better lifestyle, live in a land flowing with milk and honey, and become experientially rich but never really know God.”
The bottom line is that a car won’t ensure that my son has a growing relationship with God. But my relationship with him will. I know that I won’t always be the best person to help him along on his journey of faith, but as I learned from chapter three, there are other people out there to help influence him to take the next step.
“You need to create a space for your child to develop a relationship with God on his own terms. Does this mean you do nothing? Of course not. You actively create faith discussions throughout your child’s development. You introduce him to the faith tradition that’s led you thus far, and, above all, you live in a way that reflects the highest values of that faith…The ultimate goal of parents is to launch our children into an adulthood where they are self-directed, decisive, and responsible people.” (with or without a car!)
It’s all about priorities…D
“We become so preoccupied with giving kids an inheritance that we forget the significance of leaving a legacy. Sometimes I just have to be reminded that what I give to my children or what I do for my children is not as important as what I leave in them.”
Mike and I struggle with this. We were each brought up quite differently. My parents instilled in me a work ethic, therefore, I worked for the things I “wanted.” I started babysitting when I was like 12 and got a “real” job as soon as someone would hire me. My parents helped me to manage my money – tithe, save, spend. Mike was the opposite of me. Not that he doesn’t have a strong work ethic – trust me, he does! But he was given the things he wanted when he was younger. It was the precedent set for him.
So we struggle with balance for our own kids. As the perfect example, Ryan, our senior in High School, wants a car of his own…but he doesn’t work (other than odds and ends for grandma and his uncle). For the last two years I have been telling him to put the money that he earns away so he will have it for his dream car purchase…but my pleas have fallen on deaf ears. Mike thinks it would be okay to buy Ryan a car. Obviously, I disagree. I believe he should work for it. He needs to learn that people don’t just hand him things in the real world…and someday soon, he will be in that real world.
Ryan would be the happiest boy in the world if he had his own set of wheels. And quite frankly, it would make my life easier too…but his happiness isn’t the goal. “Whenever we define a child’s happiness as our ultimate goal, we settle for something far less significant than what God has designed for them or what He has designed them for.”
As his parents, we should “imagine the end.” Life isn’t about giving stuff to your kids. “It would be heartbreaking if your children enjoy the benefits and the prosperity of a better lifestyle, live in a land flowing with milk and honey, and become experientially rich but never really know God.”
The bottom line is that a car won’t ensure that my son has a growing relationship with God. But my relationship with him will. I know that I won’t always be the best person to help him along on his journey of faith, but as I learned from chapter three, there are other people out there to help influence him to take the next step.
“You need to create a space for your child to develop a relationship with God on his own terms. Does this mean you do nothing? Of course not. You actively create faith discussions throughout your child’s development. You introduce him to the faith tradition that’s led you thus far, and, above all, you live in a way that reflects the highest values of that faith…The ultimate goal of parents is to launch our children into an adulthood where they are self-directed, decisive, and responsible people.” (with or without a car!)
It’s all about priorities…D
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Monday, August 8, 2011
It's worth repeating
We are starting Week Two of Mary Kassian's book, "Knowing God by Name." You don't have to be reading the book to follow along and get to know God...better!
It's worth repeating
It's worth repeating
Sunday, August 7, 2011
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Operation Train and Appreciate
Volunteers make the world a happier place!!
I love my Sparks team and I have been searching for fun and creative ways to appreciate them. One goal I had was to become more intentional about training and appreciating the team I am blessed to serve with. I started slow with weekly communications. My intent was so everyone would be informed but I'm afraid not everyone reads this email blast regularly. A few weeks ago, I started including encouraging thoughts in the email and then I transfer the abridged version to a white board in each classroom. If they don't read it during the week, they will have another opportunity to read it on Sunday. I have also been sending notes of thanks in the mail. I love to get mail and a handwritten card or postcard is just a nice touch. I have also been trying hard to make phone calls to just say hello and check in. I have not done a ton of these yet - they take a lot of time - but I have enjoyed the ones I have had the opportunity to make!
But I still wanted to do more. So I brought it up to my leadership team again and we came up with a really cool idea. Since we are gearing up for a new school year, we decided it was the perfect time to say thanks and remind our team of some key things for the school year. Rather than having “another meeting” we went with a different approach.
We purchased some simple items to express our gratitude.
Then we typed up key information we wanted to get out to everyone.
We included some “fun” things to get feedback. If returned, the volunteer is entered into one of three drawings for a prize.
We packaged it all neatly into a cellophane bag.
This was a fun and easy way to train and appreciate our staff. We will follow up with a newsletter in September which will detail some "new" things happening in the ministry for the school year...and it will be attached to another sweet surprise - because even training has to be fun!
How do you train and appreciate your team?
Serving with you...D
I love my Sparks team and I have been searching for fun and creative ways to appreciate them. One goal I had was to become more intentional about training and appreciating the team I am blessed to serve with. I started slow with weekly communications. My intent was so everyone would be informed but I'm afraid not everyone reads this email blast regularly. A few weeks ago, I started including encouraging thoughts in the email and then I transfer the abridged version to a white board in each classroom. If they don't read it during the week, they will have another opportunity to read it on Sunday. I have also been sending notes of thanks in the mail. I love to get mail and a handwritten card or postcard is just a nice touch. I have also been trying hard to make phone calls to just say hello and check in. I have not done a ton of these yet - they take a lot of time - but I have enjoyed the ones I have had the opportunity to make!
But I still wanted to do more. So I brought it up to my leadership team again and we came up with a really cool idea. Since we are gearing up for a new school year, we decided it was the perfect time to say thanks and remind our team of some key things for the school year. Rather than having “another meeting” we went with a different approach.
We purchased some simple items to express our gratitude.
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| Thanks for giving a "slice" of your time. |
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| Thanks for sharing your gifts. |
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| Thanks for pouring into the lives of our kids. |
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| "Your ministry is 'write on!'" |
Then we typed up key information we wanted to get out to everyone.
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| Encouragement |
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| Curriculum basics |
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| The WOW Factor |
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| Job description...leading them to the handbook we created last year |
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| The Orange Factor |
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| A few of your favorite things...so we can appreciate all year! |
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| So we can pray specifically |
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| A quiz to see if they read what we put together! |
This was a fun and easy way to train and appreciate our staff. We will follow up with a newsletter in September which will detail some "new" things happening in the ministry for the school year...and it will be attached to another sweet surprise - because even training has to be fun!
How do you train and appreciate your team?
Serving with you...D
Imagine the End
My “middle child” is a senior in high school. He is actively looking at colleges and a potential career. Next year, about this time, I will be saying good-bye to him as he heads out into the “real world.” I won’t be there to pick up his room, do his laundry, make him breakfast, help him with his homework, give him advice, have late-night talks...
Okay, now I’m sad.
But it is important for me to look to “that day.” It’s coming. I have to prepare myself, but more importantly, I have to prepare my son.
I’m not preparing him to leave, per se. I think he will do that just fine (and probably rather quickly). Actually, I think "equipping" is a better word. I need to equip my son - to be responsible, dependable, and hard-working. To make smart choices, to grow in his faith, and to remain pure. To stand on his own, to have his own faith, and to stand up for that faith. To be a man of character with the heart of God. I need to equip my son so that when that day comes, he is ready to spread his wings…and soar.
Chapter four of "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" is going to help us see just how we accomplish this…by leaving a legacy. It’s about being the spiritual leader in your home, leveraging your influence, and focusing on what matters most.
It’s deep.
It’s hard.
It’s worth it.
Before you delve into chapter four, journal your answer to the question, “Who do I want my child to become?" Be sure to pray up too!
I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!
Imagining with you…D
Okay, now I’m sad.
But it is important for me to look to “that day.” It’s coming. I have to prepare myself, but more importantly, I have to prepare my son.
I’m not preparing him to leave, per se. I think he will do that just fine (and probably rather quickly). Actually, I think "equipping" is a better word. I need to equip my son - to be responsible, dependable, and hard-working. To make smart choices, to grow in his faith, and to remain pure. To stand on his own, to have his own faith, and to stand up for that faith. To be a man of character with the heart of God. I need to equip my son so that when that day comes, he is ready to spread his wings…and soar.
Chapter four of "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" is going to help us see just how we accomplish this…by leaving a legacy. It’s about being the spiritual leader in your home, leveraging your influence, and focusing on what matters most.
It’s deep.
It’s hard.
It’s worth it.
Before you delve into chapter four, journal your answer to the question, “Who do I want my child to become?" Be sure to pray up too!
I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!
Imagining with you…D
Friday, August 5, 2011
Stuck...but Not Giving Up!
You guessed it - no incredible weight loss this week (and no gain). I'm frustrated, but I also know that I will get there. I am not an extreme person so you won't read about me joining an expensive gym, ordering HCG, or beginning some radical exercise program.
Instead, I will contine watching my portions (MyFitnessPal has been eye-opening). I will continue to exercise a minimum of three times a week (four this week...that counts for something, right?). And I will continue to limit my Pepsi intake. I have to tell you that usually this is an easy thing in the dog days of summer. An ice cold Pepsi is not nearly as refreshing as an ice cold glass of water. However, I am a stress drinker (which is funny to write about Pepsi!), and I have been a tad stressed this week. Pepsi intake was out of control.
I have been spending lots of time with God this week. I am going through Mary Kassian's book, "Knowing God By Name." It's truly been a blessing!! Read my posts here:
Who do you know?
The challenge
My Great Master
I love you too
God is in control
I love that he is stretching me...well, I don't love it in the moment, but the end result is always good!
Okay, let's wrap this up with some recipes! My family didn't make out too bad with meals this week given the fact that they were quick and easy because of VBS. I did not remember to take pictures in my haste to leave though, sorry! Here are a few quick recipes for you to try sometime -
Pork Tenderloin - Buy a plain one and marinade it in Italian salad dressing all day. I had Mike grill it and it was very yummy!
Cheesy Ham and Potatoes:
Stir in a large bowl 1 package of frozen hash browns with onions, 1 package of ham, 16 ounces of sour cream, 1 can of cream of mushroom soup, 1 small package of shredded cheddar cheese, and a stick of melted butter. Dump it into the crockpot and cook on low all day.
Mini-Corndogs:
Mix 2 packages of cornbread together with 2 tablespoons of brown sugar. Add 2 eggs and 1 1/2 cups of milk. Stir in 1 cup of shredded cheddar cheese. Pour batter into muffin tins so they are about 2/3 full. Slice hot dogs in half (we used turkey dogs) and place in the middle. Bake at 400 for 15 minutes and serve with sweet potato fries! So simple my teenager took care of dinner!
Something we like to do when we are short on time is to eat a simple salad for supper. I bought a bag-o-salad, but you can chop up your own fresh veggies if you are more ambitious than I am! Heat up some chicken strips to put on top along with your choice of toppings and dinner is served!
I don't make a lot of desserts, but for our Volunteer Appreciation at church, I made a chocolate cake. I found the recipe at Kevin and Amanda's site and it is not only easy, but delicious!
1 box devil's food cake mix
1 small package Jello instant chocolate pudding
1 cup sour cream
1 cup vegetable oil
4 eggs, beaten
1/2 cup milk
1 teaspoon vanilla
2 cups mini-chocolate chips
Preheat over to 350. In a large bowl, mix together everything except the chocolate chips. The batter will be thick. Stir in the chocolate chips. Pour the batter into your cake pan of choice and use the cooking times on the back of the cake mix as a guide.
Buttercream Frosting
1 cup of shortening
4 cups powdered sugar
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/3 cup heavy whipping cream
In a mixing bowl, cream shortening until fluffy. Add sugar and continue creaming until well blended. Add salt, vanilla, and whipping cream. Blend on low speed until moistened. Beat at high speed until frosting is fluffy.
This is the finished product. This cake reminded me of something my mom would make...so incredibly good!
Instead, I will contine watching my portions (MyFitnessPal has been eye-opening). I will continue to exercise a minimum of three times a week (four this week...that counts for something, right?). And I will continue to limit my Pepsi intake. I have to tell you that usually this is an easy thing in the dog days of summer. An ice cold Pepsi is not nearly as refreshing as an ice cold glass of water. However, I am a stress drinker (which is funny to write about Pepsi!), and I have been a tad stressed this week. Pepsi intake was out of control.
I have been spending lots of time with God this week. I am going through Mary Kassian's book, "Knowing God By Name." It's truly been a blessing!! Read my posts here:
Who do you know?
The challenge
My Great Master
I love you too
God is in control
I love that he is stretching me...well, I don't love it in the moment, but the end result is always good!
Okay, let's wrap this up with some recipes! My family didn't make out too bad with meals this week given the fact that they were quick and easy because of VBS. I did not remember to take pictures in my haste to leave though, sorry! Here are a few quick recipes for you to try sometime -
Pork Tenderloin - Buy a plain one and marinade it in Italian salad dressing all day. I had Mike grill it and it was very yummy!
Cheesy Ham and Potatoes:
Stir in a large bowl 1 package of frozen hash browns with onions, 1 package of ham, 16 ounces of sour cream, 1 can of cream of mushroom soup, 1 small package of shredded cheddar cheese, and a stick of melted butter. Dump it into the crockpot and cook on low all day.
Mini-Corndogs:
Mix 2 packages of cornbread together with 2 tablespoons of brown sugar. Add 2 eggs and 1 1/2 cups of milk. Stir in 1 cup of shredded cheddar cheese. Pour batter into muffin tins so they are about 2/3 full. Slice hot dogs in half (we used turkey dogs) and place in the middle. Bake at 400 for 15 minutes and serve with sweet potato fries! So simple my teenager took care of dinner!
Something we like to do when we are short on time is to eat a simple salad for supper. I bought a bag-o-salad, but you can chop up your own fresh veggies if you are more ambitious than I am! Heat up some chicken strips to put on top along with your choice of toppings and dinner is served!
I don't make a lot of desserts, but for our Volunteer Appreciation at church, I made a chocolate cake. I found the recipe at Kevin and Amanda's site and it is not only easy, but delicious!
1 box devil's food cake mix
1 small package Jello instant chocolate pudding
1 cup sour cream
1 cup vegetable oil
4 eggs, beaten
1/2 cup milk
1 teaspoon vanilla
2 cups mini-chocolate chips
Preheat over to 350. In a large bowl, mix together everything except the chocolate chips. The batter will be thick. Stir in the chocolate chips. Pour the batter into your cake pan of choice and use the cooking times on the back of the cake mix as a guide.
Buttercream Frosting
1 cup of shortening
4 cups powdered sugar
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/3 cup heavy whipping cream
In a mixing bowl, cream shortening until fluffy. Add sugar and continue creaming until well blended. Add salt, vanilla, and whipping cream. Blend on low speed until moistened. Beat at high speed until frosting is fluffy.
This is the finished product. This cake reminded me of something my mom would make...so incredibly good!
One of my goals this month is to try at least one new recipe a week. Next week we are going to try German Beef Goulash! Mmmm....
So...what devotions have resonated with you this week? What weight loss goals have you met? What yummy recipes can you share? Comment or link up!
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What I Love About Homeschool
There are alot of things I am enjoying about homeschooling Gavin. First, I love the quality time we are spending together. We have a bond that I can't say I had with my older two at this age. I also like the flexibility we have. It's great to know that I can spend a day, a week, or a month on a particular concept. I can do a variety of activities with him to ensure he "gets it." This makes everyday different and exciting. I love that Gavin loves school. He asks me (sometimes begs) to do his baskets. His love of learning makes my heart happy. We can also go anywhere we want for a field trip. Learning takes place in so many venues! I love knowing that I am not alone! There are a ton of people out there, each ready to offer sound advice, resources, and encouragement.
I can go on and on...but I think the thing I like the most is the fact that I am not doing this alone. My hubby also likes to help when he can. And since we often do "school" in the evening, he has more of an opportunity to take part in this exciting journey!
What do you like about homeschool?
Keeping it real....D
I can go on and on...but I think the thing I like the most is the fact that I am not doing this alone. My hubby also likes to help when he can. And since we often do "school" in the evening, he has more of an opportunity to take part in this exciting journey!
What do you like about homeschool?
Keeping it real....D
The Crashing Wave
Let’s face it – the busyness of life can sweep us away like a gigantic wave taking us under. I woke up this morning and felt as if I was choking. I mean literally too. I’m an exhausted (and cranky) woman on the edge here!
So overwhelmed right now!!
I hate the feeling of being behind. I hate the “unknown.” I hate not having structure and routine. I thrive in the neat and organized part of life…too bad that slice is the tiniest!
My July was all about being behind, walking into the unknown, and total lack of structure and routine! It started with the perfect vacation, followed by a quick retreat, and then a long weekend trip. That was followed by a week of cleaning after my hubby and two older kids lived like bachelors for two weeks! *not cool*
Next was the task of organizing and getting back into a routine…which was an epic fail with the start-up of work and VBS. When I look at my calendar, I see meetings and deadlines and I begin to hyperventilate.
I am cranky when I don’t have a plan…and I don’t have a plan!
To add to the chaos and make matters worse, we are behind the eight ball with college applications and scholarships, busy with baseball camps, and dealing with some “challenges” that burden us. In short, my heart is heavy. Although I am on my knees, the wave is looming over my head. And since I am barely treading water, I am pretty sure I am going to drown!
After I popped some cinnamon rolls in the oven for breakfast (I know, I’m a goddess in the kitchen, right?), I sat down to do my devotional. And this is what I read: “I love the fact that God is sovereign. For me, this is a most precious thought and the source of eternal hope, confidence, comfort, and joy. His sovereignty means I can trust him. When the ugliness of sin, strife, and struggle seems more than I can bear; when life deals me a bitter blow and my heart is crushed with pain; when everything seems out of control, I can anchor myself to His greatness. His sovereignty is my surety. I can rest in the knowledge that when all is said and done everything will be alright. He will make it so. His counsel will stand, and He will accomplish His purpose. He is sovereign. He is God.”
I’m now resting safely on the boat. I’m shivering, dripping in water, catching my breath and wondering what will happen next. But I am safe in his arms, “resting in the knowledge that when all is said and done everything will be alright!”
Anchored in Him…D
So overwhelmed right now!!
I hate the feeling of being behind. I hate the “unknown.” I hate not having structure and routine. I thrive in the neat and organized part of life…too bad that slice is the tiniest!
My July was all about being behind, walking into the unknown, and total lack of structure and routine! It started with the perfect vacation, followed by a quick retreat, and then a long weekend trip. That was followed by a week of cleaning after my hubby and two older kids lived like bachelors for two weeks! *not cool*
Next was the task of organizing and getting back into a routine…which was an epic fail with the start-up of work and VBS. When I look at my calendar, I see meetings and deadlines and I begin to hyperventilate.
I am cranky when I don’t have a plan…and I don’t have a plan!
To add to the chaos and make matters worse, we are behind the eight ball with college applications and scholarships, busy with baseball camps, and dealing with some “challenges” that burden us. In short, my heart is heavy. Although I am on my knees, the wave is looming over my head. And since I am barely treading water, I am pretty sure I am going to drown!
After I popped some cinnamon rolls in the oven for breakfast (I know, I’m a goddess in the kitchen, right?), I sat down to do my devotional. And this is what I read: “I love the fact that God is sovereign. For me, this is a most precious thought and the source of eternal hope, confidence, comfort, and joy. His sovereignty means I can trust him. When the ugliness of sin, strife, and struggle seems more than I can bear; when life deals me a bitter blow and my heart is crushed with pain; when everything seems out of control, I can anchor myself to His greatness. His sovereignty is my surety. I can rest in the knowledge that when all is said and done everything will be alright. He will make it so. His counsel will stand, and He will accomplish His purpose. He is sovereign. He is God.”
I’m now resting safely on the boat. I’m shivering, dripping in water, catching my breath and wondering what will happen next. But I am safe in his arms, “resting in the knowledge that when all is said and done everything will be alright!”
Anchored in Him…D
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Widen the Circle!!
Well, well, well...Chapter Three of "Parenting Beyond Your Capacity" is a heavy chapter! I hardly know where to begin.
Shocker, right?
I suspect that many of you are like me in that you didn’t have other people in your life who were intentionally building you up. As I’ve thought about that, I’ve actually been encouraged and motivated to do things a little differently with my kids. I have a college-age son, a high school senior, and a preschooler - and it’s not too late for any of them!
There are many great churches out there who have the desire to partner with you. If you are not plugged into one, I highly encourage you to make that a priority!
As I read this chapter, the one thing that really resonated with me was the emphasis on serving. At my church, we start talking about serving with the kindergarten kids and the middle and high school ministry takes it to the next level! I realized that it all starts with us as parents. Not that it's a new concept to me - just one I didn't think was as important as it is. Until I read the following quote.
"Community service was significantly more closely related to the faith development of teens than attending worship services…When teens serve alongside adults, the experience broadens their faith and redefines their understanding of church.”
Wow!
I read it.
Then I read it again.
I was convinced of the priority and example we should set for our kids.
Then I realized how I sort of messed up a little.
And I was not only convinced, I was convicted!
How do you feel about all of this? What priority to you place on serving?
Blessings…D
Shocker, right?
I suspect that many of you are like me in that you didn’t have other people in your life who were intentionally building you up. As I’ve thought about that, I’ve actually been encouraged and motivated to do things a little differently with my kids. I have a college-age son, a high school senior, and a preschooler - and it’s not too late for any of them!
There are many great churches out there who have the desire to partner with you. If you are not plugged into one, I highly encourage you to make that a priority!
As I read this chapter, the one thing that really resonated with me was the emphasis on serving. At my church, we start talking about serving with the kindergarten kids and the middle and high school ministry takes it to the next level! I realized that it all starts with us as parents. Not that it's a new concept to me - just one I didn't think was as important as it is. Until I read the following quote.
"Community service was significantly more closely related to the faith development of teens than attending worship services…When teens serve alongside adults, the experience broadens their faith and redefines their understanding of church.”
Wow!
I read it.
Then I read it again.
I was convinced of the priority and example we should set for our kids.
Then I realized how I sort of messed up a little.
And I was not only convinced, I was convicted!
How do you feel about all of this? What priority to you place on serving?
Blessings…D
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Monday, August 1, 2011
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